Showing posts with label disability. Show all posts
Showing posts with label disability. Show all posts

Friday, 10 July 2015

Good News and Bad News for child poverty


Today is my 49th day doing the clothes off my back challenge. If you're a regular reader of the blog you'll remember that it all started with a conversation about capsule wardrobes and child poverty (you can read about it here), and has turned into me following these rules for 49 days so far, and a full year by the time I'm done.

I've been thinking about child poverty even more than usual over the last week for one good and one not so good reason which I'll share with you.

 As is traditional I'll start with the bad news....

Our government has decided to change the way child poverty is measured. And (in my personal opinion) they've got this wrong. 

Our current measure says that a child whose family are living on 60% less than the national average income are living in poverty. Now as a measure it's a bit of a blunt stick as individual families will move above and below that line based on national income without their ability to pay their rent changing one iota. But it does acknowledge that you measure poverty by money.

The government will now measuring the impact & the causes of poverty (impact - attainment of children, causes - families being out of work) - this isn't a bad idea BUT without maintaining an income measure there is a risk that this will shift the debate from poverty to education and back to work programmes. Crucial work to be sure but I don't care how well your teacher/ mentor has prepped you for that exam/ interview, you are not going to perform your best if you enter the room starving hungry.

In my borough (Walthamstow) End Child Poverty estimate that 34% of children are living in poverty. To put it another way 10 children in the average classroom round here are living in families where they struggle to make ends meet. Not struggle to buy designer trainers, a new xbox or holidays. But to heat their homes in winter and keep everyone in the home fed and sheltered. This makes me angry. I spent years of my life doing direct work with families in areas of Sheffield and London where poverty is a real issue. I've worked with children who despite their parents best efforts are inadequately dressed for the weather, come to school bone cold because their house has no heating, or indeed hungry. And much as the rhetoric from our more right wing media would have you believe that this is because their parents are feckless and lazy -  my experience is very different. 

Lots of the families I've known who live in poverty have one or both parents in work (63% of children living in poverty nationally are in a working household), lots of them have children whose care needs are higher than the usual and most of them have cut out the luxuries for themselves before they reluctantly decided that their son or daughters winter coat would need to wait for the next paycheck. These are families like yours, made up of people like you and difference between what they need to spend to keep their heads above water and what they have coming is stark.


Income matters and I'm really worried that we've stopped measuring it.You can read more about why it is important here.

The GOOD NEWS of the week is also about income. Specifically it's about the rights of families of children in hospital to continue to get DLA. You'll remember I've talked about the brilliant Mathieson family before in my post about Dowser Day.


Contact A Family have been campaigning with the Mathieson family against the rule that meant DLA payments stopped when their son Cameron was in hospital for more than 84 days.

On Wednesday the Supreme Court unanimously ruled that this was a violation of his human rights. This is the first time ever that the Supreme Court has found for a claimant in a social security case, and it will be transformational for all those whose children face extended hospital stays. 


I'm not ashamed to say that there were tears and whoops in the Contact A Family offices as this verdict came through - it is brilliant, brilliant news.

It's made it easy to keep plodding on with the clothes of my back challenge this week. I know in the scheme of things that the challenge is a small thing - but the money raised helps Contact A Family to do the big, the exciting, the life changing things. 

And with 41% of families of disabled children telling us they've had to take a loan out to pay for food, there is still a lot of work to be done. Thankyou for your support - as always if you want to Support Contact a Family's work you can do so here.

And here for all you rule checkers are day 47 & 48's #clothesoffmyback photos. No effort at all made to pose in these sorry!






Wednesday, 24 June 2015

Stats watch - Month 1

I know you've all been dying to see the whole month in one shot, with some very niche statistics... no? Oh well - brace yourselves because I'm doing it anyway!

So between 23rd May & 22nd of June:

I've worn 19 items that is 54% of my allowable clothes.

Most worn item so far is my sandals with a massive 19 wears so far - this means I've worn them for 61% of the challenge, and that they are already clocking in at a very reasonable £2.36 per wear (not including all the times I wore them before the challenge started).

25 of us have donated a total of £920 plus £210 in gift aid, that is an average of £45.20 per person! Thankyou you generous generous people!

The biggest single donation so far came from the lovely Sean Davies ( as a tax on not naming his firstborn after me I think!) - Seans contribution alone would cover 2 workshops on something like benefits, behaviour or sleep for 20 parents each. 

You are doing a brilliant thing here people keep it up.

So what will month 2 bring?

Well......invites are going to go out for the first event, I'm going to go big on ebaying, there will be my first ever vlog (that's going to be stilted and awkward) & (with a couple of friends) I'll be setting up some craft sessions for autumn.

If you haven't sponsored me yet, then please do - even if you decide you'll donate the equivalent of buying me a pint (or a pie) every month it will all add up.

There are other things you can do to support fundraising that will cost you NOT A SINGLE PENNY!

Sell some stuff you don't want on ebay - I wrote a guide here.

Raise awareness of what Contact a Family do - or of my challenge by sharing my facebook posts, tweets and the blog itself. Add me to your google circles (this is new to me but I'm told it's important).

And tell me what you think - here on the blog comments. Do you want to dare me to do something silly & are prepared to pay to see evidence of it? Fine make your offer. This is for charity & a charity I love and care about, so (within limits) I'm open.

We're £1k down but there is 2 more to go & frankly whatever we raise will be put to good use.

Thanks for being part of team #clothesoffmyback. I genuinely am supremely grateful for your support!

Normal service will resume tomorrow with a blog on how to make a hat from flowers! 



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Sunday, 21 June 2015

Dowser Day - supporting the Mathiesons court battle

Hello Everyone,

Those of you that follow either me (@edarcherthinks) or Contact A Family (@contactafamily) will have noticed a lot of tweets about Dowser Day recently. You'll have seen lots of photo's of dinosaurs and may have wondered what it is all about.

Over the last few years Contact a Family been supporting the Mathieson family as they fight against the government rule that takes away Disability Living Allowance (DLA) payments from children who spend over 84 days in hospital.

The Mathiesons' son Cameron spent over two years in hospital with cystic fibrosis and muscular dystrophy when his DLA payments were stopped. The family are currently awaiting a decision from the Supreme Court on their legal challenge to scrap this rule. If they are successful it could mean no other family loses essential financial support when their child spends long periods in hospital.



Sadly Cameron passed away in October 2012, aged five. Every year on his birthday, 19 June, his mum, dad, brothers and sister celebrate his life through Dowser Day, a nod to Cameron's love of dinosaurs.


Cameron's dad Craig Mathieson explains: "Cameron loved everything and everyone in his life and, like many boys his age, he was fascinated with dinosaurs. Because of Cameron's speech delay he couldn't say dinosaur and called them Dowsers instead."

 

One of the reasons I love working for Contact A Family is that the Mathieson's aren't a symbol or a test case for us. Everyone in the organization - including people like me who have never met the family take the situation they were put in by this unfair rule personally.

 

Which meant when we were offered a way to show the family we cared about their loss, and we were grateful for all the effort they are putting in to change this situation for other families by joining in Dowser Day celebrations everyone really threw themselves into it.

 

Here's some of the stuff the team made in our lunchbreaks:







You can find loads more contributions to Dowser Day from staff, families and supporters here and our thankyou video here. People from all over the country got involved. It was brilliant, and no it won't make a difference to the outcome of the court case wether we made a giant dinosaur head or not. But it does make a difference to remember that families of disabled children are families first, and to support and celebrate ordinary family life. 

And it does (to me at least) make a huge difference to work in a charity where everyone really gets that and knows that it is not for us to set an agenda for families but to support them to set their own agenda, get their voices heard and celebrate and protest in a way of their choosing. Contact A Family are really good at what they (we) do, because we are all about families leading the way. Doesn't that sound like the kind of organisation you want to support? As always donating is easy you can do so here.



 

  

Tuesday, 9 June 2015

What do you call a fear of washing machines?



So in the middle of last week I did my first clothes wash since beginning the clothes off my back challenge. And then proceeded to experience nail biting anxiety for the duration of the wash.


My mum was really good at preparing us for the world, by the time we left home we could all cook at least 4 meals (tuna pasta bake, spaghetti carbonara, shepherd’s pie, toad in the hole), we could change a fuse, iron and put on a wash – we knew (and largely ignored) the importance of living within our means and putting something away for a rainy day. We were essentially pretty well rounded human beings.


And then we left the sphere of her influence and it all went wrong. I’m sure during the next 6 years of living in shared houses I must have done some washing, and at least some of it must have been successful as I always had enough viable clothes to convincingly cover my bedroom floor, but somehow I appear to have lost the knack.


As the size of my wardrobe got increasingly out of control I began to see the washing machine like the hand of god. Yes many jumpers, dresses and skirts did not survive it’s harsh judgement, but I appreciated it’s role in keeping the overcrowded population in my wardrobe down.


So now – 17 years after leaving home I put on the first wash where I genuinely needed everything to survive. 10 items, 10days into the challenge is simply far more than I can afford to lose!


Thankfully on a 30% wool wash everything came out clean and approximately the size and shape it went in.

But this did make me wonder – what is the real cost, physically and environmentally of all those clothes my carelessness ruined? How much good could have been done with the money I saved if had less clothes and they lasted longer? I can’t take back 17 years of waste.But I can hope that this year shows me a new respect for the clothes I do own that lasts a lifetime.Too much to hope for? 

I hope not but if so at least we're raising money for a good cause!

Monday, 8 June 2015

Clothes Diary (Day's 10- 16)

Blowing through clothing options at a frankly terrifying rate. Up to and including Day 16 - I've worn 16 items. That is 46% of my allowed clothes.......in 4% of the year.


So Day 10. I worked from home which explains the scruff levels



Day 11. Broke out my favourite frock

 

Day 12 - Denim & Boots

  

Day 13 - New Skirt & stripes

 

Day 14- Shirt,  Mini & exciting new trainers!

 
 
 Day 15 - Picnic in the park for Carey's 1st Birthday. Abley accessorised by Keith & Tom




 Day 16 - Are you getting enough? Stripes and skirt at Gods own Junkyard








Friday, 5 June 2015

Your clothes off my back mini summer challenge.....



Hello again,

Well I don’t know about you but next weekend launches me solidly into wedding season, I have 4 friends weddings between then and October, and between that, hen and stag do’s significant birthdays, and my parents ‘cancer didn’t kill us’ party  it feels like I’m booked solidly throughout that time.

One of the exciting things for me about the clothes off my back challenge is dodging the ‘how to dress for weddings’ bullet. Despite the fact that I must have attended 30+ weddings I’m still not quite sure what to wear. I don’t have a clue what smart casual means, or black tie or white tie and as I’m naturally a bit of a scruffpot (a friend at sixth form once accurately and cruelly described my look as ‘slightly stoned primary school teacher’) I tend to go way, WAY too far the other way. As in when my sister Julya got wed I wore a 1950’s ballgown, and no hat – despite the fact hats were the only thing she requested on the invite!

The result of this anxiety tends to be that I throw money at the problem – I am exactly the demographic Coast built their business model around. It seems rude to wear something old to a wedding (why? I don’t understand this at all & have deep respect for this blogger who wore a well loved and worn frock to her own wedding) so I spend a small fortune on some floral strapless number that then gathers dust in my wardrobe. These dresses are not at all suitable for my daily life, and I won’t dare wear them to another wedding (for reason of the above mentioned rude factor) but they cost a little bit too much for me to feel ok chucking them in the charity shop bag.

I’m guessing most women have at least one of these dresses in their wardrobe that makes them feel horrible and guilty every time they see it. So by way of a #clothesoffmyback lite I have a little challenge for you. Carve out 20 minutes of your life this week, and follow the guide in yesterday’s blog to listing clothes on ebay for charity to just sell one of those frocks.
If 100 people list just one item and it sells for £20 that is £2500 (including gift aid) raised for Contact a Family and if you pass this challenge on to people you know – well, the sky is the limit!

So go on – de guilt your wardrobe – and if you do have a wedding to go to maybe search #clothesoffmyback on ebay and buy a frock from another fundraiser…

Meanwhile I’ll be wearing my everyday clothes with a nice pair of heels to this year’s weddings and I’m sure feeling (& looking) a lot better for it! 

PS if you like the beaded jacket I wore to my sisters wedding (in the photo below) the listing opens tonight at 9 on ebay just search #clothesoffmyback and place a bid .......


Thursday, 4 June 2015

How to sell unwanted items on ebay and raise money for Contact A Family

Hey there,

Thank you all so much for the positive messages you've been sending about my challenge and the blog. It's been brilliant to feel so supported.

I realise taking a challenge this extreme is not for everyone, but none the less lots of you have been asking about how you can help. If you want to you can donate here or you could consider getting rid of something you no longer want by selling it on ebay for us.

This post is a detailed step by step guide to listing items for Contact A Family in a way that will raise the most money. I've used clothes as an example but really you can sell anything, got an old bike in your garage? Furniture you no longer love? Selling these things online with ebay's direct donate function is really easy and every penny Contact a Family receives is put to good use.

So here goes

Step 1 - identify the item you want to sell. Clean it up & make it photo ready. While you are doing this note any features or damage someone buying it might want to know about.

Step 2- Take photos. You can load up to 12 photos free, so take detailed close ups as well as photos from as many angles as possible.

Step 3 - Make a cup of tea and boot up your computer. If you've never used ebay before the next stage will take up to 20 minutes, if you are an old hand you can get a listing up in 6.

Step 4- Go to www.ebay.co.uk  If you have an account log in if not you'll have to set one up (there are easy instructions and it's very quick to do) - or use a friend's account.

Step 5 - Along the top of your screen you'll see a 'sell' tab. Click on it. On the top right of the page you have the option to 'switch to advanced tool'. Do this - ebay is going to ask you if you are sure. You are - it's the only way you can automatically donate to charity, so confirm 'switch'.

Step 7 - Fill in a basic title for your item. I typed 'pink jacket'. This helped ebay suggest a category I  could list in. You can choose 1 category for free, and if you want a second it'll cost 35p.

Step 8 - Once you've pressed enter you should be on the real listings page. Your first job here is to revisit your title and make sure that you have as many keywords as possible in it. Keywords are the words people would type to try and find an item. My item title was 'topshop beaded jacket pink blush wedding festival 12 14 #clothesoffmyback'. I included the hashtag so Contact a Family supporters can find everything that is being listed for us, if they want to help out by buying you item & so we can promote your item on social media.

Step 9 - Describe any faults or quirks the item has in the condition box.

Step 10- Upload your photos using the basic photo uploader. Make sure your best photo is on the far left as this will be your cover photo. There are little arrows on the bottom of your uploaded photos that move them left or right use these to give your best photo top billing.

Step 11 - In the details box, describe your item. Talk about it's size (dimensions are especially important for furniture),style and condition. Cut and paste the below text and links into the details box.



I am listing to raise money for Contact A Family. In their 2014 research they found 65% of parents of disabled children go without essentials like clothes in order to provide properly for their children. (The research is here along with the number of families – 33%- who can’t afford to heat their homes). This year a member of our team is raising money by selling all her clothes (except 35 key items) to raise money for Contact a Family to continue their work supporting these families. As a part of this she's challenged people to join in this summer by selling one wedding outfit on ebay for Contact A Family, if you want to get involved you can find the challenge here, and if you want to donate you can do so here.

If not- please bid generously - because this item is gift aided every penny you pay plus 25% extra is donated to Contact a Family. Happy Bidding.

Step 12 -Tab down to choose a format and price for what you are selling. Start as low as you would be prepared to part with the item for, items with a low starting price often end up making more than higher priced items as people become attached with repeat bidding.

Step 13 - Set a start time and duration for the auction. You want your auction to finish on a Sunday evening - that's when items make most money

Step 14 - This is the important one! You'll be asked if you want to donate all or part of the sale to charity, if you don't get offered Contact A Family as an option click select another charity, search for and select Contact a Family. Then you'll be asked what percentage of the sale you want to donate. Obviously I'd suggest 100%.

Step 15 - If you are planning on selling more than one item for Contact A Family Thankyou! You should tick the save this listing box - it'll make listing your next item much quicker!

Step 16 - Confirm your listing.

And you're done!

We can help you promote the things you are selling to raise money for us. If you tweet me @edarcherthinks or Contact a Family @ContactAFamily with a link to your listing we'll try and help you get the word out.

Thankyou for your time and support

Edx

PS here is what my finished listing looked like