Sunday 28 June 2015

A whole lot of love. Clothes diary days 31-36

Hi There,

I hope you've all had a good week. Mine has been an odd combination of exhausting and wonderful.

Exhausting because I was ill Sunday night and didn't sleep so I felt like the week was all catch up and wonderful because some people I love got engaged (congratulations Sarah & Mark), and my parents sprung a renewal of their vows on us!

You'll remember that they had a 'cancer didn't kill us' party planned. Well that was yesterday, and while my family were sat in their garden, chatting, drinking & messing about their neighbour (who's a minister) supported them to renew their vows. It was a total shock & quite quite beautiful. Here they are - my lovely Ma & Pa (notice how Squeak even finds a way to appear in the wedding photos)




In other news I sold 3 more bits on ebay - & have listed a load more that'll go live at 9pm tonight (check the buy the clothes off my back  page to see if there is anything you fancy), and added 1 new item to the list

Item number 20
Toast Dress (with thanks to my lovely ma-in -law for the vouchers I bought it with)

Riva Dress

 And here's the clothes diary for the week:

Day 31
(no sleep & no makeup)


Day 32
(migrane & concerned dog)


Day 33
(exploding chicken)



Day 34
(Jet Li)

Day 35
(summer's back)


Day 36
(with my mum & sisters)




One of my sisters made me the most amazing gift - which I'll blog about later in the week,

In the meantime take care all 

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Friday 26 June 2015

*How to make a hat out of fresh flowers*





Some of you may have noticed when looking at the rules that I was specific about clothes being ‘things made out of fabric’ and wondered why.


Well Jess & Adam’s wedding celebrations is why. I received the invitation to this do well before I started the challenge. Jess was really clear on what she wanted. She wanted everyone to wear clothes that they felt comfortable in – but also to wear a hat & the bigger and louder the better.


I knew I’d need a hat at some point this year – but very much plan on it being a knitted beret in a neutral colour which  wouldn’t fit with this kind of event. So I left myself this loophole so I could craft a solution.


Here is a photo of Jess, me & our lovely friend Claire at the do.



They’ve known each other forever, but I met them when we were 16 and getting into indie club nights illegally together and generally being naughty. We all had Saturday jobs at Habitat and spent the money on 70’s shirts, booze and gig tickets and once they could both drive went to loads of lovely festivals together. Now that we are proper grown ups and all live in different places we don’t see each other often – but there is still a lot of love there –so  if I’m asked to wear a loud hat I’m going to bloody well find a way to wear one.


To give an example of the levels of commitment to the cause at this wedding here’s the hat Claire’s husband showed up in.


This is the hat I made – it took about 30 minutes






You will need these items:

-         -   A children’s paper party hat

-          - Superglue

-          - A bunch of flowers (the kind with soft stems and light blooms – you’ll break your own neck if you try & wear one of these covered in peonies)

-           - Sharp scissors


And optionally some hairclips or ribbon for a chin strap.


So to start with your lovey party hat should look like this.




If it is metallic (shiney) you are going to want to turn it inside out. Superglue will just melt & slide off the metallic spraypaint.


Turning it inside out is easy – these hats close with a kind of envelope tab. Untuck this.

Lie cardboard side up on a table like this.

And reassemble like this.


From this point on it is really easy.

Simply cut your fresh flowers as close to the top of the stem as possible – the stems are just going to get in your way you’ll need at least a couple of millimetres of flat surface where the flower meets the hat.


Have a look at what colours you like next to one another and lay all the flower heads out flat. Then simply superglue then on one at a time! Remember gravity isn’t on your side so you’ll need to hold each flower in place for a couple of seconds to let the glue do it’s work.


In a couple of minutes TA DAH you have a floral hat. (don’t put it on for 5 mins after all the flowers are in place – you do NOT want to super glue a hat – even one this pretty – to your head!)




If you’ve been doing pilates , or had Julie Andrews as a nanny/ grandmother and can therefore walk with books on your head – then you can just pop it on and go.


The rest of us mere mortals can either replace the elastic chin strap with some ribbon – or if you are wearing your hair up attach to your ‘do’ with some hair pins and head to the party. Enjoy!


I should have finished this with a photo of the happy couple but I failed to take one! So here’s a lovely photo of their son looking like a zombie!


Wednesday 24 June 2015

Stats watch - Month 1

I know you've all been dying to see the whole month in one shot, with some very niche statistics... no? Oh well - brace yourselves because I'm doing it anyway!

So between 23rd May & 22nd of June:

I've worn 19 items that is 54% of my allowable clothes.

Most worn item so far is my sandals with a massive 19 wears so far - this means I've worn them for 61% of the challenge, and that they are already clocking in at a very reasonable £2.36 per wear (not including all the times I wore them before the challenge started).

25 of us have donated a total of £920 plus £210 in gift aid, that is an average of £45.20 per person! Thankyou you generous generous people!

The biggest single donation so far came from the lovely Sean Davies ( as a tax on not naming his firstborn after me I think!) - Seans contribution alone would cover 2 workshops on something like benefits, behaviour or sleep for 20 parents each. 

You are doing a brilliant thing here people keep it up.

So what will month 2 bring?

Well......invites are going to go out for the first event, I'm going to go big on ebaying, there will be my first ever vlog (that's going to be stilted and awkward) & (with a couple of friends) I'll be setting up some craft sessions for autumn.

If you haven't sponsored me yet, then please do - even if you decide you'll donate the equivalent of buying me a pint (or a pie) every month it will all add up.

There are other things you can do to support fundraising that will cost you NOT A SINGLE PENNY!

Sell some stuff you don't want on ebay - I wrote a guide here.

Raise awareness of what Contact a Family do - or of my challenge by sharing my facebook posts, tweets and the blog itself. Add me to your google circles (this is new to me but I'm told it's important).

And tell me what you think - here on the blog comments. Do you want to dare me to do something silly & are prepared to pay to see evidence of it? Fine make your offer. This is for charity & a charity I love and care about, so (within limits) I'm open.

We're £1k down but there is 2 more to go & frankly whatever we raise will be put to good use.

Thanks for being part of team #clothesoffmyback. I genuinely am supremely grateful for your support!

Normal service will resume tomorrow with a blog on how to make a hat from flowers! 



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Sunday 21 June 2015

Dowser Day - supporting the Mathiesons court battle

Hello Everyone,

Those of you that follow either me (@edarcherthinks) or Contact A Family (@contactafamily) will have noticed a lot of tweets about Dowser Day recently. You'll have seen lots of photo's of dinosaurs and may have wondered what it is all about.

Over the last few years Contact a Family been supporting the Mathieson family as they fight against the government rule that takes away Disability Living Allowance (DLA) payments from children who spend over 84 days in hospital.

The Mathiesons' son Cameron spent over two years in hospital with cystic fibrosis and muscular dystrophy when his DLA payments were stopped. The family are currently awaiting a decision from the Supreme Court on their legal challenge to scrap this rule. If they are successful it could mean no other family loses essential financial support when their child spends long periods in hospital.



Sadly Cameron passed away in October 2012, aged five. Every year on his birthday, 19 June, his mum, dad, brothers and sister celebrate his life through Dowser Day, a nod to Cameron's love of dinosaurs.


Cameron's dad Craig Mathieson explains: "Cameron loved everything and everyone in his life and, like many boys his age, he was fascinated with dinosaurs. Because of Cameron's speech delay he couldn't say dinosaur and called them Dowsers instead."

 

One of the reasons I love working for Contact A Family is that the Mathieson's aren't a symbol or a test case for us. Everyone in the organization - including people like me who have never met the family take the situation they were put in by this unfair rule personally.

 

Which meant when we were offered a way to show the family we cared about their loss, and we were grateful for all the effort they are putting in to change this situation for other families by joining in Dowser Day celebrations everyone really threw themselves into it.

 

Here's some of the stuff the team made in our lunchbreaks:







You can find loads more contributions to Dowser Day from staff, families and supporters here and our thankyou video here. People from all over the country got involved. It was brilliant, and no it won't make a difference to the outcome of the court case wether we made a giant dinosaur head or not. But it does make a difference to remember that families of disabled children are families first, and to support and celebrate ordinary family life. 

And it does (to me at least) make a huge difference to work in a charity where everyone really gets that and knows that it is not for us to set an agenda for families but to support them to set their own agenda, get their voices heard and celebrate and protest in a way of their choosing. Contact A Family are really good at what they (we) do, because we are all about families leading the way. Doesn't that sound like the kind of organisation you want to support? As always donating is easy you can do so here.



 

  

Clothes diary Day's 23- 30

Hello Everyone

This week has been a little special. Tomorrow I'll do you an update on how dowser day went - I think it'll give you a taste of why the charity you are all supporting by sharing, promoting and sponsoring this challenge is so amazing. I'll also do you a tutorial on how to make the fabulous fresh flower hat I wore on day 29. But for now here's a super quick overview of what I wore and how many items are now on the list.

I spoke at a conference on Wednesday - this involved adding 2 dresses to the line up. For you maths geeks (who are going to LOVE my stats post on the 23rd of each month) That takes me to 54% of my wardrobe in 8.2% of the year.

So the new items are......


My 'pretending to be a grown up' Hobbs dress. It's a beautiful, basic navy number which crucially has pockets which has made it one of my favourite peices of workwear. So here you go. Item Number 18 The navy dress:

 

And my favourite (it's 5 years old now at least) summer frock, item number 19, adding some much needed colour to my wardrobe :


And then this week:

Day 23 

Sunday - lot's of lazing about going on


Day 24

Monday - working from home

Day 25
Tuesday - double denim at the office



Day 26

Wednesday - pretending to be a grown up at a conference







Day 27

Thursday - linen and silk in an attempt to deal with humidity (spot the dowser day prep)

Day 28
Friday -end of the week frock action

Day 29
Saturday - Jeans, trainers & a hat made out of flowers (what else would you wear to a wedding?)

Day 30
Sunday - summer frock for pub lunch






 I'll update you in week with posts about the stats so far, some things you can do and why Contact a Family is a cause you'll want to donate to, but for now happy Sunday xx






Thursday 18 June 2015

What do they call double denim in NYC? The Texas Tux? Disappointingly No




So far in the challenge lots of people seem a bit concerned about what I’m wearing out. Not  OUT out – everyone’s clear I’m far too conventional to allow myself to be inappropriately dressed for a wedding, and they know I’ll have made sure I have smart enough stuff for presentations  and work events. People are worried about what I’ll have t for evening drinks in town.

It’s true that there isn’t much in my wardrobe that’ll work for a cutting edge bar in Shoreditch – but I thought I’d got it sorted. Double denim . Jeans, denim shirt, heels and a slick of lipstick. It’s a classic no? 

Every year a glut of fashion magazines announce that we’ll be amazed to hear double denim is back. And we aren’t because it’s never really gone away. Yes, there is a risk you look like you’re dressed up as a cowgirl – but I’m ok with that. So I’ve full on embraced the looks other nickname – the Texas tux.

I love a bit of bluegrass, and deeply uncool as it is I also have a lot of time for 70’s country and western. Rule of thumb – if my dad played it in his car I love it. One of my happiest childhood memories is me, Zoe & Jason in the back of the spacecruiser roaring along to Grandma’s OldFeather Bed  – that is what family is all about right? And I’ve always wanted to do the old City Slickers cow herding thing – so the name always felt cool to me.



Until I met my lovely friend Leah for lunch on Sunday. Leah is a full on Yankee, with all the epic coolness that implies. She’s sharp, she’s got a filthy sense of humour and has insanely good hair. Sickening all round really.

When Leah asked the- “But with that few clothes what do you wear to bars?” question I replied almost cockily “the classic texas tux”

And Leah attempted to stifle an enormous snort. “that is not what we call in in NYC – in New York it’s called ………..

……A CANADIAN TUXEDO”

Her face made it very clear this was not intended as a compliment.

Thing is I’ve always had a soft spot for Canadians – they take a lot of stick for Celine Dion – but really what nation doesn’t have a star that they are a bit ashamed of – David Essex anyone?  When I first traveled with friends I met countless Americans who wore a Canada pin because they knew people would be more friendly to them if they thought they were Canadian. This was in ’99 – it wasn’t political. It was about politeness- that’s the reputation Canadians carry (excepting the odd crack smoking mayor) – that they are polite. I’m not ashamed to hang my hat there (even if I’d rather it was a Stetson). 

So regardless of NYC disdain you’ll find me at the bar rocking my Canadian tux.

P.S. Philanthropy is well cool – you can donate here.











Monday 15 June 2015

Minimalism (post one of a possible - not very minimalist- thousand)



Minimalism. It’s not something I know a lot about really. I’ve always assumed minimalists were either neat freaks (please don’t allow your child to spill anything on my white rug) or those amazing glamazons who dress entirely in monochrome and accentuate their ski- downable cheekbones with a severe low ponytail.
 
Somehow in my head I’d got minimalism confused with Elle décor . I’d made it all about consuming and showing off rather than essentially travelling light.

But since deciding to do this challenge I’ve been doing a lot of reading – mainly of blogs from other women who have committed to wearing less. And none of these blogs talk about only having high end designer gear – none of them try to dictate a set style, and many of them have an environmental or emotional attachment to thrifting and clothes recycling. 

These are women who have decided that by allowing themselves to consume everything they were losing a bit of their identity and so wanted to give themselves space to consider what they actually liked. And limiting the number of purchases they made helped them clarify this. Some bloggers talked about how their massive wardrobes distracted them and took up headspace they couldn’t spare, and minimalising the number of clothes they owned just gave them that extra space they needed for thought.

I’m not going to try to cover what all these amazing women are saying in this one blog. I’ll probably point you in the direction of a couple of the ones I love over the course of the year. But for today I’m just going to focus on one into -mind. I’ve become a little obsessed with this blog over the last couple of weeks.

I started just reading the stuff about style – I really like the way Anuschka poo poo’s dressing for your size, or picking a fashion label to describe your style but instead asks you to think about what shapes you like (she calls them proportions – here), and what colours you enjoy. Reading her blog made me feel much more like I was starting on an adventure than robbing myself of creativity (which I was a little worried this challenge would). It also made me much braver in sorting the ‘save for next year’ vs ‘sell for charity’ piles. I realised I own lots of clothes that are about who I was at another time, or who I was pretending to be. This year with less to choose from I’ve become more picky about comfort, and about things that are important to just me ( pockets – I’m taking about pockets here – I am approximately 200% happier wearing something with pockets than without). 

I’m also at an age (aren’t we all) where I’m trying to get the balance of my life right, work out where I want to be and what my priorities are. And this is why I really love what Anuschka does. Because the blog isn’t just about fashion. It’s about living slower, changing daily habits, and identifying what you care about. Last week I did the 50 questions to evaluate your last year exercise, and found it really helpful. So helpful I sent the link to a load of my friends and bored Jo’s lovely mum Rosie about it over dinner on Saturday night. 


 

 (thankfully she’s brilliant & still seemed cheerful after listening to me banging on. Here we all are after dinner - Rosie is third from the left and heroically still awake)
 
So I’m excited about minimalism now & seeing this year as a journey. I’m bored of feeling guilty about all the stuff I own that I don’t need and I’m really lucky this challenge allows me to get rid of things while supporting a cause I really care about. Far be it for me to advocate you all buying more stuff at the end of a post on minimalism, but if you want to shed some money you can donate here, and if you want a new frock I’m listing 4/5 a week for charity here.

Hope Monday was good to you all. Travel light.